Whenever we're facing challenging or difficult situations in life, most probably we would come to a crossroad where we have to choose in between these two paths...
The CONSTRUCTIVE path and the DESTRUCTIVE path.
Choosing to be on the constructive path is to choose to face the challenge or problem heads on as if there is nothing to lose, focusing on doing and achieving things bit by bit. In the end, even if the result does not turn out to be in our favour, we can still be rest assured that it's not all lost as well, because we gain something very precious that even money can't buy -- EXPERIENCE. Even if we do not achieve our intended goal, due to our relentless and sincere efforts, we would still have achieved something else which are equally as meaningful along the journey.
Choosing to be on the destructive path is to choose to give up and avoid facing the challenge or problem once and for all. The whole story ends here. Not only that nothing would be gained, while we thought we would lose nothing, the fact is that we would lose a lot -- lost opportunities, lost courage and lost self-esteem.
Two paths lie ahead of you -- to choose to be CONSTRUCTIVE or to be DESTRUCTIVE -- the choice is yours...
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