My personality
traits: Modest, quiet, independent, optimistic, sensitive
I was a quiet, modest child when I was in elementary school. I was a leader in my class, and my parents and teacher always praised me. I was an obedient child from my birth, quiet and modest by nature. From elementary school until now, I lived at a school dormitory, where I learned to do housework by myself. When I was a six-year-old child, I took an airplane by myself. These experiences fostered my independent trait. My optimism and sensitivity developed after elementary school.
I lived with my grandparents before I went to middle school. That was the happiest time of my life. Though my grandparents could not teach me much from textbooks, they taught me to be an optimistic, sensitive person. I believed I could do better than other children of my age.
After I finished kindergarten, I moved to Nanjing which is a big city in China with my aunt. Because my aunt was busy with her business, nobody took care of me. I felt lonely and lost in that period. I believe I am sensitive now because I had a bad experience as a teenager. I moved to Beijing to live with my mother after two years. I spent my teenage years until now in Beijing. My parents divorced when I was fourteen years old, and I seldom saw my father after that. I seldom felt my father’s love. To be honest, my parents’ divorce did not have a big influence me; it just let me become more sensitive, without a sense of security. I always stayed at school, so I became more independent. That gave me the confidence to go to study abroad. I knew that I could take care of myself.
I cannot say that I am more like my mother or father because I didn’t grow up with either one. I spent most of my life with my grandparents and aunt.
From my experience, I believe it is better for a child to stay with her parents (mother and father). It is the best way to grow. I miss my grandmother; she had a big influence on my life. In China, we have this expression: “Men at their birth, are naturally good. If there is no teaching, the nature will deteriorate. However, to feed without teaching, is the parent's fault.” I agree with this idea. People are naturally good when at birth. The difference is nurture. Nurture determines the way people work and live. I believe this is determined by people’s life environment and their parents.












